At last, I finally found the time to get back to this one. This is in response to a 'male chauvinistic' post by a friend of mine from the 16th century. From now on I shall refer to him as 'Shrek'.
First of all, Mr. Shrek, wake up, we're living in the 21st century.
Why is a woman's dress sense bothering Shrek so much? Probably because the sight of a female distracts him or maybe poor thing's just extremely frustrated. But come on, he's definitely not thinking of 'that' :p
Secondly, Yes, men do stare, irrespective of what a woman may wear, its a known fact. Not wearing a dupatta properly is indecent, then I guess a saree (which has ventilators in abundance) has to be the most indecent costume, but Mr. Shrek doesn't find it 'obscene'. His description of a girls dress sense sounds like as though there are clones of Pamela Anderson from Baywatch out there who seem to threaten him. But hey, wait a minute, I guess being a female is itself indecent !!
Talking about decency, what do you call men who stop by almost anywhere, even the busiest streets to attend nature's call? Or those men who never miss a chance to grope around? Is this how men display decency?
There are also normal men. This clan of men do not expect women to dress like as though they've been just honoured by draping a shawl around them at an awards ceremony. These men see women, first as human beings , respect them and accept them as they are. These are men who think of their mother, sister or daughter before degrading a woman for any reason whatsoever. My hats off to this clan of men.
P.S.: No Offence Meant :P !!
Wat an awsome thought shruti... Its juz not from u... but one behalf of me and many other gals.... Before he degrades women he must first think of his own mother nd sisters... anyways u ve give back in a nice way.. Gr8 going sweety pie... rock on...
ReplyDeleteThank you girlie :)
ReplyDeleteMy comment on this one :-
ReplyDelete"There are also normal men. This clan of men do not expect women to dress like as though they've been just honoured by draping a shawl around them at an awards ceremony. These men see women, first as human beings , respect them and accept them as they are. These are men who think of their mother, sister or daughter before degrading a woman for any reason whatsoever. "
It is precisely these kind of men, that women usually look down upon, without even an iota of thought that these are the very folks, who are actually supporting them...
Enna kodumai sar ithu ...
I rest my case here.
BTW, which blog did you come across this post ? You could have hyperlinked it...
And as for the comment above mine....
Girlie, get the context and then please don't forget to get a life... :) :D :P
A woman can never go wrong in sensing a man's intentions.
ReplyDeleteComing to Girlie...She has a life, she doesn't need to be reminded of what to do or what not to do. No one gives you the right to offer free advice to any of my followers. The same applies to them.
I don't have to go around lookin at other people's blogs for contents. By the way, the fact that you've commented proves somethin I didn want to reveal :P
Shruti .. man wow... u seem to be boiling... now if u can fwd Mr.Shreks blog link, guess wod make more sense in appreciating urs :)
ReplyDeletethe only male comment apart from urs.. check it out
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